You ever had a phone charger that was on its last leg; you know the one you have maneuver and rig to get it to work? Relationships are no different. We try to maneuver and change the way it’s supposed to be so it can work. Love is hard and it’s supposed to be but what you can’t do it continue to try to make it work when you know what the problem is and it’s unrepairable. We like to hold on so tight and try not to be without that we hurt ourselves more. That charger is going to die and you’ll be without any ‘life’ to your phone until you get a new one. You may borrow a friends but that’s their charger and it’s not going to help you in the long run, meaning your friends may have a solution but it’s up to you to decide if you’re going to continue to deprive yourself of happiness. You have to stop trying to breathe life into dead situation and you’re the only one who can let go and start anew.